I am quite traditional kind of girl and I like being that way BUT there is something I am questioning. Something that has been playing on my mind and that's the whole "Can a girl ask a guy out" or even Can a girl just walk up to a guy and give him her number?
Many of my friends think I should just bite the bullet and do it. What is to loose they say? My answer he may say "No thanks!" or worse shoot me down there and then. ULTIMATE CRINGE!!
So there is this guy that is a regular in my work place and I may have had a little tiny *MASSIVE* crush, oh god do people even use that word any more :/ I keep wanting to talk to him and give him my number but little old me has no faith my myself, let alone any confident to do so.
The other thing that has held me back is that EVERYONE in my work place knows and I knows what I am like *cue old post BLUSHING AND FLUSHING* I have no control over it when I am talking to someone I really and I mean REALLY fancy. I know this is said to be cute *quote by a guy friend of mine* but is it though... I mean I wouldn't really have to say anything as my face clearly would do the talking.
So there is this guy that is a regular in my work place and I may have had a little tiny *MASSIVE* crush, oh god do people even use that word any more :/ I keep wanting to talk to him and give him my number but little old me has no faith my myself, let alone any confident to do so.
The other thing that has held me back is that EVERYONE in my work place knows and I knows what I am like *cue old post BLUSHING AND FLUSHING* I have no control over it when I am talking to someone I really and I mean REALLY fancy. I know this is said to be cute *quote by a guy friend of mine* but is it though... I mean I wouldn't really have to say anything as my face clearly would do the talking.
But then again am I just blushing and flushing because everyone I work with knows and is watching intensley? I honestly don't know what to do or handle the situation. I really don't want to come across desperate and needed. Any guys out there reading my blog want to lend there opinion on this would very appreciated :D Not that I don't trust my friend just you never know if he just said that because we are friends.
Now call me a loser but I have watched YouTube videos on this and read articles and everything seems quite 50/50 which is stupid and not the answer I need right now. I clearly need to get better at flirting and being a girl. Everyone else has it easy in my eyes. Actually I have had it easy as guys have just come to me before *that's not me being all big headed* I have never been the ask-ee and I give it to the guys that pluck up the courage to walk up to a girl, sometimes not even knowing her just meeting across a bar or a coffee shop an talking to her and getting her number. Like, that is some scary stuff and us girls expect you to do it now. That's just how its goes. In the films maybe. Oh Man, why is my life not like a Disney film or one of them Rom-Com's the girl always gets the guy and 9/10 times its the guy that makes the effort. With the girl being super pretty, smart and flirty.
Where are my flirty skills? I really feel like I have lucked out of things *I blame my parents*
So do I stick with tradition and try my hand at some flirting techniques away from the eyes of EVERYONE or do I just grow some *female* balls and just walk up to him and give him my number * maybe run away after* I am joking!
Now call me a loser but I have watched YouTube videos on this and read articles and everything seems quite 50/50 which is stupid and not the answer I need right now. I clearly need to get better at flirting and being a girl. Everyone else has it easy in my eyes. Actually I have had it easy as guys have just come to me before *that's not me being all big headed* I have never been the ask-ee and I give it to the guys that pluck up the courage to walk up to a girl, sometimes not even knowing her just meeting across a bar or a coffee shop an talking to her and getting her number. Like, that is some scary stuff and us girls expect you to do it now. That's just how its goes. In the films maybe. Oh Man, why is my life not like a Disney film or one of them Rom-Com's the girl always gets the guy and 9/10 times its the guy that makes the effort. With the girl being super pretty, smart and flirty.
Where are my flirty skills? I really feel like I have lucked out of things *I blame my parents*
So do I stick with tradition and try my hand at some flirting techniques away from the eyes of EVERYONE or do I just grow some *female* balls and just walk up to him and give him my number * maybe run away after* I am joking!
HELP!!!!!
Thanks for reading and please leave some comments on your opinions on this as I am really in a little pickle :(
Chelsea XOXO
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